Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Wonderful



Riley has been in a creative frenzy. She can't get enough of the crayons, pens, pencils. The kids had a snow day yesterday and the monkey above was one of many masterpieces that resulted from all that free time.

I used to watch with sadness as other kids; 3, 4, 5 year olds happily colored away. Riley wouldn't touch the crayons. Her fine motor skills were so poor. At 3 1/2 her hands worked like an 18 month old (according to her occupational therapist). Her intelligence however, was above average. Imagine the frustration?

This time last year. She refused to even pick up a pencil to attempt to write. Today, she wrote the words above without asking for any help. She drew and colored the monkey all by herself.

Recovery from autistic spectrum disorders IS possible. I can't say she never has a meltdown but today they are few and far between. Today I thank her for every tantrum she ever had. Her outbursts are what motivated us to keep searching. It was terribly painful, but it led us in the direction we needed to go toward healing. Her vision doctor says something along the lines of "The behavior is your big clue. It is the child offering you information on how to help them."


My friend Kathy sent me a link for a conference that looks promising. It's on the "wrong" coast but those of you out west might want to check it out!

http://www.mercola.com/seminars/200703/klinghardt-autism

7 comments:

Jenny Rough said...

The right coast, the right coast!

BTW, I like Dr. Mercola's video Q&As on his site.

Carrie Wilson Link said...

Yea for Riley! She is such a success story!

Jerri said...

Seeing Riley's picture, it IS a wonderful day. Every day brings another small victory, Michelle, and it's a pleasure to see them through your eyes.

Kim G. said...

I love the quote from your eye doctor. I once heard a similar one from Super-nanny in regards to bedtime behaviors. If your kids are acting out at bed time, they're trying to get your attention. It's a sign that you didn't give them enough attention during the daylight hours and now they are demanding it from you.

What awesome progress for Ms. Riley and I love that she expresses herself through pictures AND words. A budding writer, perhaps?

Naomi said...

What a great picture! You have given Riley the gift of optimism!

Terry Whitaker said...

I feel just like Jerri--I love seeing her through you!

kyra said...

i love that drawing!!