Did I mention Riley's violin class is held at 3PM? Did I mention it takes place onstage in the gymnasium...while a gym class is going on? These 8 little violin players are crammed shoulder to shoulder behind the stage curtain.
They listen to their teacher above the sound of balls dribbling, kids screaming, and often times, the gym teacher flips on music to accompany her class.
Now, all kids are tired by 3PM. Riley, even more so, because her neurological system isn't in tact. She spends every moment on her last nerve, and works very hard to keep it together over the course of a typical day. I dare say she does a better job than most of us would under the circumstances but this violin set-up bugs me. It isn't good for any of the kids but it sets up my child (with sensory processing issues) to fail in particular.
I wrote a very friendly letter to the principle, requesting a change of classrooms. He's a young, personable guy. All the kids love him. Riley loves him.
I dropped it off before violin.
He didn't have it in his hand for more than five minutes when he sought me out to tell me there was no other place in the school. They'd searched everywhere at the beginning of the year.
Nothing to be done.
It's only kindegarten and I am already so tired of this.
David Hawkins in his book Power vs. Force says, "Support the solution instead of attacking the supposed causes."
My mind is clear as mud.
I don't know the solution.
Friday, February 02, 2007
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The principal's office?
Seriously love the "support the solution" quote. Be patient and kind to yourself. A solution will appear. Your energy and intelligence and your love for Riley will make it so.
MAYBE they could use the teachers classrm (is is seperated classrm or integrated?) MUSIC/CHORUS were always trbl.for us too.. Always barely visible in the background / or inapproriate chatter & dance we were told.. My daughter is now in highschool ~ she USED to belong to chorus LOVES IT ~ it gets serious in the highschool here & they really didnt want out kids involved ~ I gave up this fight FOR NOW. People in schools can be underhanded quietly talking behind the scenes making small changes that can be BIG to us~ all of sudden chorus wasnt on agenda.. ouch! Be GLAD you have the class we(parents)requested a special "music type" class private in THEIR special room .. It simply just didnt happen ~ trying again soon ~ need to build up educated wording & reasons why NECESARY ex: therapy reasons or else they simply do not have to... ugh again.
Tough situation....I find it hard to believe that there isn't one available classroom. But, I guess you should support the solution. Sorry, I wish I could help - I'm so impressed with "cute stuff" being able to do as well as she does under those circumstances! You should wisk her away everyday after practice and let her chill out in the "perfect" home environment - maybe a nice warm bath or something.
Good Luck.
I can't believe there isn't one empty room anywhere.
Can someone volunteer their home?
Too bad I didn't live closer- you could use my house- all I have are 2 insane dogs.
I can't believe the teacher doesn't lose her mind. I'm being sympathetic over here and proud of Riley for sucking it up and doing the lesson anyway. What a girl!
Can the parents rotate houses?
The big middle school is right across the parking lot, and I find it hard to beleive THEY don't have any space, but the violin teacher is on a very tight schedule and fears half the 40 minutes would be wasted bundling them up and getting them over there.
Grrr....
Can you pull out the LRE card? The gym, with its noise and cacophany is NOT LRE for Riley. Maybe? Lord,you'd think they could find a classroom? A teacher's lounge? Or, call me crazy, a MUSIC ROOM? Sigh.
Her is my 2 cents( it's genetic. I can't help but offer it.)
It sounds like stage was the space 'of least resistance'. Perhaps you could find a teacher who is sympathetic to what this experience is like for Riley and ask them if they would be willing to share their class space. If they knew that the parents were willing to ensure that everything was put back as it was and that both they and the music teacher wouldn't have any extra stress they might be more open.
could Riley play in the gym class and take violin in a proper and private class some time when she isn't in school? Is that a solution?
Having worked in CLOSETS as a public school teacher, I understand space limitations. I also know the squeaky wheel gets the grease. Ask the principal if YOU find a better place in the school, and everyone supports it, will he, too? Teachers are busy, tired, over-worked. We love helpful/supportive parents!
i agre with Naomi! I bet that would work. All the classrooms can't be being used?
:)
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