Friday, November 30, 2007

1919-2007

Anyone who has read this blog for long knows how I feel about Dancing With the Stars. When Todd and I were first married, we took swing dance lessons. His gramma was thrilled when I told her we'd been practicing in our kitchen.

She said early in their marriage, her husband Angelo secretly took lessons at Arthur Murray, and one day surprised her, (in the kitchen), by taking her hands and leading her in a jitterbug. I never met Todd's Grampa but people say Todd's just like him. Sweet, caring, sensitive, honest, loyal and full of integrity. She was wild. He was calm. They made each other crazy, but it worked. They loved and adored their grandchildren exactly the way it's supposed to be done.

Todd's Gramma was devastated when her husband died 13 years ago. She mourned long and hard and never did quite recover.

Today Angelo took his bride's hands once again.

May they dance in peace.

* Gram C. with Seth 2002

22 comments:

Laura E. Goodin said...

My condolences on your loss. Grandmas are special. I miss mine to this day, and it's been nearly 13 years since she died.

La La said...

I'm sorry for your family's loss. I love the image you created of her dancing once again with her husband. Beautiful.

kyra said...

aw. so sorry. but that was beautifully said. i dont' know them but i can picture their reunion. bittersweet.

MY OWN WOMAN... said...

How beautifully put and what a wonderful tribute. Dance....though your heart is breaking.....
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Kathryn said...

I am sorry to hear of Todd's gramma passing, Michelle. You wrote a beautiful tribute to her and I am sure you and Todd take some comfort in knowing she is with her love once again. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Laura said...

I'm sorry for your, and Todd's loss! That was a sweet story!

Carrie Wilson Link said...

That was f'ing beautiful, Michelle! So, let me get this right, Todd's grandfather was just like Todd, and his grandmother was "crazy?" Hmmm....

Michelle O'Neil said...

Carrie, nevermind.

riversgrace said...

Beautiful tribute, Michelle. Blessings for her passing.

Kim said...

So touching and beautiful. I'm sorry for your family's loss, but happy for her peace and the love she shared.

Stacy said...

I immediately thought the same thing as Carrie. But so sweetly done, I can hear the song, "Ain't nobody here but us chickens" and see happy people reunited in the kitchen in Heaven.

Kelly said...

Very nice tribute. My condolences.

Carrie Wilson Link said...

OK, just re-read the DWTS post and the first one on Gramma - laughed all over again. "How do you think I rang the doorbell?" OMG! Best. Joke. Ever.

kario said...

What a beautiful tribute to what sounds like a beautiful soul. I hope you and Todd find time for a dance or two in her honor this weekend.

Love.

Naomi said...

She sounds lovely. What a gift to your family She and Todd's Grampa were (are). I think some tribute dances are a great idea. But maybe in something a litle more glam than the long johns...

Courtney said...

My thoughts are with you and your family

Amber said...

Bless her heart. But I am sorry for your loss, too. :(
I know my grandma will never be happy, until she goes to be with my grandpa, too.

:)

aka Cate said...

That was so sweetly written. I'm sorry for your family's loss.

Michelle O'Neil said...

Thank you everyone for your kind words. Gram C.'s obit is in the local paper today and it says she and Angelo danced for 53 years together!

Love.

Kim Stagliano said...

Oh. Yeah, it's hard to lose a Grandma. I'm sorry.

Suzy said...

Lovely tribute Michelle.

My condolences to your family.

Love

Suzy

s@bd said...

xo