Wednesday, March 19, 2008

We Made It!

"Are you going to take a slow drizzle?" Todd asks.

"Huh?

"I think the term shower is being a bit generous." He says.

No water pressure.
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Seth had a play date Monday, (the day the movers came). His friend's mother said, "Seth didn't want to watch any TV here. He said he didn't want to waste his screen time."
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Took a break from the overwhelm of unpacking today to attend Riley's school award ceremony. I watched her get a "good citizen award," an award for "academic excellence," and another one for doing a "great job" in music class. She walked up to the podium in her tie-die sleeveless sundress (in winter in Cleveland)and thick knit leggings(hot pink), and sneakers, hiking the waist of her tights up as she went. She stood in line with the others receiving awards, arms ticking away with excitement. (We got rid of a bio-feedback lady who wanted to extinguish her tic. Of all Riley's difficulties, this is what she focused on). The whole school was there, all the parents watching, and I was grateful for that tic. May everyone see it, and note her "invisible" disability. May they cut her some slack. One day she might want to work on controlling it, and that's fine, but for now we've bigger fish to fry.

But there she was, in a huge assembly, high-fiving all her classmates on the way back to her seat on the floor. She turned around, found my eyes, and grinned and waved.

And all the overwhelm I've felt in the last week melted off.

This is why we're here.

You go baby!

14 comments:

a faithful fan said...

you are such an awesome mom to be present with her in these moments and not worry about the other crap. wow.

aka Cate said...

Nawww....I just love your mother-daughter moments. You're an awesome mum - Riley couldn't have picked any better.

Val said...

Yeah Riley! I was always nervous at those awards ceremonies.

Congratulations on the move.

Shari said...

Spoken like a proud parent!! And you should be. Riley's going somewhere. Some parents want to "hide" their child(ren)'s "disablity". You work with it, yes, but you accept her as she is, too. What a lucky little girl she is to have a mom like you. :) HUGS

Laura said...

Woohoo! Go, Riley!

Kathryn said...

You made it! Great! I think the award ceremony was just the break you guys needed. Hearing about Riley's successes always cheers me. Love the outfit.

La La said...

Congratulations, Riley!!!

You go, Girl!

Carrie Wilson Link said...

Happy, happy, all of it. Except the TFBS water pressure.

iportion said...

What a sweet moment :-)
I am so happy for your family.

drama mama said...

Go Riley! Tic OUT, sister! All of those awards? Come ON!

Michelle - you are awesome for seeing what you NEED to see, and looking past the rest.

Good for all of you. Seth and his screen time included.

Jerri said...

Riley has arm tics, but she also has a mother so solidly in her corner that it doesn't matter, a mother who knows that all things happen in their own time.

Blossoms of blessings all around, Michelle. All around.

kario said...

Wahoo! Congratulations, Riley! Congratulations, Mom, for weathering the storms (both tangible and otherwise) that just keep coming your way.

Naomi said...

ahhh memories of frickin falling down tights.
Congratulations ONeils on all fronts!

kyra said...

YAY! that is wonderful! i got chills reading it.

congratulations on completing the move and welcome to your new home!