Monday, January 12, 2009

Magical Weekend

On Sunday, we went to a benefit for an adorable little boy, whose parents are also seeking a service dog for him from 4 Paws for Ability. Their event was a great success. It was held in a civic center and they had a big turn out, putting the family over their fundraising goal for Luke's dog. Way to go Smolinskis!

They did an amazing job. Face painting, jugglers, lots of clowns, including Ronald McDonald doing a magic show. The kids sat on the floor in front of the stage and when he asked for a volunteer, Riley's hand shot up along with all the others.

He picked her.


There was a moment when he asked her to catch a scarf, and he kept throwing it toward her and pulling it away as she grabbed for it.

My stomach braced itself.

She didn't cry.

There was a moment, when he asked her to climb into a tiny box, and she looked at me, worried. I tried to give her an assuring look, "He's kidding," I mouthed, not sure she could read my lips. She got through it.

Then she started doing the "pee-pee" dance, right up there on stage.

"Damn!" I thought.

She hadn't gone potty since 7AM, and it was now 3PM.

Damn. Damn.

Kids were loud, screaming, laughing, clapping. Riley was holding her own.

For the grand finale, Ronald asked Riley to push a button on the magic box, but before she could he push it, he said, "Where are your parents?"

She pointed to us and he said,jokingly, "Tell them good-bye."

THEN, as if that wasn't enough, he warned everyone, "Cover your ears!" But when Riley tried to cover hers, he said, "No, not you, you have to push the button!"

SERIOUSLY, I thought we were done.

In front of 500 people.

On stage, with possibly wet pants.
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I held my breath. HT told me later he was thinking, "Look clown, your little magic show is about to blow up in your face."

There was a pause.

And then, our girl, pushed the button, (after which she quickly covered her ears).

There was an explosion and a slew of little Ronald McDonald frisbees came piling out of the box.

Riley created all the frisbees! Riley did magic!

She came down from the stage visibly overwhelmed, and we took some deep breaths. In a few minutes she was fine. It took me a bit longer.

Later, my literal Riley told us she was afraid Ronald McDonald was going to shrink her down to fit into the little box, and she was scared she might not get back to us. She went to bed last night happy, proud and exhausted.

DESPITE HER FEAR, SHE KEPT IT TOGETHER!

First sled riding, now this!
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It was a magical weekend and we're celebrating every victory.

*BTW, That's Seth's little head in the right hand corner of the photo, the guy with the balloon. It didn't even occur to me to check in with him at the time, to see if he was worried about his sister up there on stage. Sweet boy, I love you and I promise we'll pay for your therapy if you need it.

22 comments:

Amanda said...

Thanks Michelle. The international fan club now has cramp in all toes and a calf muscle, no fingernails and an adrenalin rush.

Thanks

Thanks a lot!

but wasn't that AMAZING?????

OOH, here comes the good bit, happy vibes!!

jesswilson said...

holy cr@p! i'm not sure i would have kept it together through all that, no less riley.

you go, girl. sky is the limit!

Kathryn said...

Cleveland was fairy dust...and/or she's just taking off in her own time. I am so thrilled for you and proud of our Riley! And Seth, too. Troopers, all of ya. I would have been doing the pee pee dance throughout the whole thing! :)

Carolyn said...

OMG! This reads like a thriller! I was holding my breath the whole time I read it! So great to see kids make progress. Congratulations!

courtneywrites said...

Wonderful post! And I love the little note to Seth on the bottom.

Jeni said...

Isn't it just the most marvelous feeling in the whole wide world when our kids achieve something like Riley did with the Magic? Makes you wanna cry, crocodile tears and laugh -all at the same time. So fantastic a feeling, for sure.

Jamie said...

Sounds so great! I am so happy it went so well!!

Carnal Zen said...

Holy CRAP! I would have wet my pants...the Ronald has a creepfactor of 10!!!!
Way to go kiddos!

Susan's 365 said...

Delurking (because it's delurking day or something like that) to say that I love reading your blog. WTG Riley! You rock girl!

Niksmom said...

GOOSEBUMPS! The kind that start in the ball of my fot and go all the way up through my jaw and the top of my head. **almost never get 'em, either!**

WOOT! Go, Riley! :-D

CharlieInWonderlandDotCom said...

Hell, I almost peed my pants reading this one!

;)

Stacy said...

she has really grown. I could not have held it together, I am sure.

Wanda said...

I hope you and HT have really strong hearts! I know they are really good hearts.

K Fuller said...

You are a great writer,I could see the whole thing. You must be so proud of your daughters progress. You should be proud of yourselves too!
Our son was frightened by Ronald Mcdonald years ago and at 16 he is still afraid that he will be in the restaurant and prefers the drive thru.

kario said...

Dang! What's next, guys? Shooting her to the moon? This girl has more courage in her little pinky toe than I have in my entire body. What a freaking trooper!

And you and HT and Seth? Well, there's no doubt she feels like she could conquer the world with you three as her rooting section.

Everything is possible.

Carrie Wilson Link said...

OMHOG, indeed! That girl is ON FIRE (not literally, of course). And Seth won't need more than the usual amount of therapy, I"m almost certain!

Kim G. said...

Riley is McAwesome! Her courage inspires me. Blessings to you and HT and the kids as you continue the great adventure before you. (Hopefully there wont be any more clowns for a while!)

drama mama said...

Oh my hell of God. I was right there with you, crapping my pants.

Never fails to amaze. Never.

Robin said...

Oh Oh Oh!! I was right there with you, forgetting to breathe, looking for the closest escape route (for her-- not you) and then SUCCESS!!!

It is times like these when you wish for video, so you could enjoy watching (now that you know it has a happy ending.)

Stan said...

I was physically cringing through the entire post. It was brutal! And amazing! Is it just me, or does Riley rock more each and every day.

Jerri said...

OMHOG!!!!

Riley is a McRock Star!

(So is her little brother.)

Jess said...

SO great!! Love this. :)