Thursday, June 04, 2009

To Riley on her ninth birthday...

My Dearest Riley,

Today you are nine. NINE! You have done amazing things this year. You soared through third grade, doing an incredible job academically. You began horse back riding. You became a true martial artist. You began learning to swim and bike ride. You ran a 5K with Girls On the Run. You bravely decided to share yourself with your new Circle of Friends. By letting these people get to know you, you are not only helping yourself, but helping the whole world. Your bravery has ripple effects that you will not ever know, but they will be there. People will be more kind. More understanding. More compassionate. More accepting, because of you. You are an amazing force, my sweet girl.

Words could never express my gratitude for all you have taught me since you were born. My love for you is the only thing strong enough to have caused me to look at things differently. Because of you I look at all things differently.

Because of you I am a much deeper, gentler, calmer, appreciative person. Because of you, I have been able to let go to a large degree my worries about what people think of me. Because of you, I came out of sleep and began to question. Because of you I have received answers. You are my light baby girl. Thank you for taking me through the fire, and gliding me through the sea.

My love for you stems from the Source that turns embryos into babies, clouds into rain, night into day, fear into love. You are an irrefutable sparkle in the eye of All That Is.

Your kindness, your pure heart, your intelligence, your gift for words and music, your innocence, your humor, your love for your family, your beauty, your dimple, your determination, your love of animals, all these are things I cherish about you.

You are a blessing. Happy ninth birthday my love.

xoxo

Forever,

Mommy

20 comments:

Jenn said...

Beautiful! Happy Birthday Riley!

courtneywrites said...

Happy birthday, Riley! Love all the pictures!

Carrie Wilson Link said...

COL, COL, COL! "Your bravery has ripple effects that you will not ever know, but they will be there. People will be more kind. More understanding. More compassionate. More accepting, because of you. You are an amazing force."

So true.

love.

Jerri said...

She is, indeed, a wondergirl.

As Carrie says, COL.

Happy Birthday, Riley. And happy, happy to the mother and father who became hers nine years ago.

jesswilson said...

you are so blessed to have each other .. she's one lucky little girl, michelle

Carolyn said...

I loved reading this and I especially loved seeing Riley "grow up" right before my eyes. Thanks for sharing and Happy, Happy Birthday to R.

Kim said...

When am I going to learn not to read this blog at the coffee shop?! Your words and those beautiful photos slay me. CPW over here. (Covert Public Weeping)

Kathleen said...

Those cheeks KILL me!

K Fuller said...

Happy Birthday to a sweet girl.

Please dont be creeped out when I ask...will you be my Mommy?

Dianne said...

the wings at the piano photo is pure bliss!!

Happy Birthday Riley
I'm so pleased to know you through your Mom's writing
I think of you often, especially when I need to be brave or find more kindness in my heart

Tzeitel (Stacy) said...

Beautiful girl, happy birthday blessings. What a long way you all have come. (The winged piano players should be in a gallery somewhere-awesome pics.)

pixiemama said...

Happy Birthday, Riley!
You are ALL THAT!

xo

Tanya @ TeenAutism said...

Happy, Happy Birthday Riley!

I so love the pic of her reading a book in her little plaid skirt! Too cute!

Georgia Peach said...

Happy Birthday Riley...

xoxo

Niksmom said...

Happy Birthday, beautiful Riley! Thanks for letting your mama share you and your family with us. It's an honor and a privilege to get to know you through your mama's loving eyes and words.

Naomi said...

Happy Birthday Riley! You mean so much to all of us. It is such a gift to be able to hear and see what a beautiful heart you have.
XO

goodfountain said...

Happy Birthday, Riley. What a cutie you are, and an inspiration to many of us!

Anonymous said...

OK, so for me, it's all about photo #4, the close up in the blue dress... with the pout, and the cheeks. Really makes it clear that you wake each morning to one of the sweetest ever faces to keep you inspired in your path to wisdom!

A beautiful letter. Happy anniversary of motherhood to you.
-e-

Drama Mama said...

all that and a bag of chips, she is

LOVE

Wanda said...

Oh, those cheeks! Riley, you are a beautiful girl--a beautiful being. Happy belated birthday!