Friday, August 07, 2009

Camp

Riley has been attending a day camp this week, put on by her therapeutic martial arts school. She's been meditating, creating art about what she saw in meditation, doing yoga, learning emotional freedom techniques, dancing, cooking healthy food, working on social skills, doing martial arts, and much more I probably don't even know about.

I am envisioning a similar camp for moms of kids with special needs. We'd do all of the above, but with manis and pedis, and massage.

But as I was envisioning, I thought about another camp. This one for the dads of kids with special needs. HT works long hours, and lots of overtime, to pay for everything our kids need. For a few years, he came home only to be greeted by a crazy lady who would hand him the kids and run. He'd get desperate phone calls in the middle of the work day and have to talk me off the ledge. I know the pressure I'm under, but I don't really know his. What's it like to balance the financial responsibility, watch your kids struggle, and also watch the love of your life fall apart? And men. What's with them? They basically talk to no one. Stay at home dads face their own set of challenges and stigma. Do they talk about it? I don't know. There would be forced talking at my camp for men! We won't put that on the brochure. The men definitely need a camp.

Therapeutic camp for families. My wheels are turning.

Who's in?

11 comments:

jesswilson said...

emotional freedom techniques .. MUST KNOW MORE

and yes .. the dads. YES!

Niksmom said...

Definitely! And the men? They do talk...to other men. It just looks (and sounds, I think) waaaay different from the way we process things. Niksdad used to have a great support system of men when we were in CA. When we moved to DE (my home turf), it went away. I think if he had that he'd be happier, too.

Carrie Wilson Link said...

In.

Jerri said...

Brilliant.

Wanda said...

Great idea!

Tanya @ TeenAutism said...

Yes! Yes! I need to go to special-needs-mom camp!

Lydia said...

How did you find the therapeutic martial arts school? What does it involve? How might I do the same?

My mom has been saying for years that I should get into meditation and martial arts...

Full Soul Ahead! said...

Lydia,

I prayed to the Google Gods. What moms did before Google, I do not know.

: )

Amber said...

Me!! I'm in. What a great idea...You know that would go over well here in Northern California! You could start a franchise, and I'll buy in.

:)

Drama Mama said...

Manis
Pedis (hullo, given!)

organic spa food

french patisserie

massages

nightly music and cocktails while a professional social skills therapist takes the children on some sort of adventure

pratesi sheets

tempurpedic mattresses

yoga pants and flowing tunic dress code

half-naked pool boys...

ooops. um. sorry.

yeah.

i'm in.

kario said...

Sounds like Drama Mama's got a plan!

You are brilliant. Make sure Riley's taking notes...